Great job! So far we have convinced ourselves that we are loaded with self confidence and we made the girl in front of us interested to find out more about us. She is now sure that we are filled with self confidence and we also made her internal balance into a complete mess. Now isn’t that great?

Now we are finally going to do something about it:

1. Wait for a few seconds and then get up from your sit, take a deep breath, and walk over towards her. Make sure you walk a bit slowly so she will notice you coming. As soon as you get there, reach your hand out to shake her hand and simply say: "Nice to meet you. I'm Roni" ( you might want to use your own name) off course, don’t forget to look directly into her "bridge" this will completely create a subconscious breakdown in her mind.

2. A normal person should reach back and shake you hand. Once she does, shake her hand while pressing your thumb gently on her hand in a slight circular movement. The feeling this creates also adds to the total affect of dazzling her.

3. In this moment, you should check her response and act accordingly: If she does shake your hand and/or smiles and/or says her name, that’s great and you can continue. If she tries to ignore you or shakes your hand lightly and turns away it's over, you must have done something wrong or maybe you didn’t follow all the rules in the bottom of this page (so keep on reading). If something like this happens, you should just say the following: "I just wanted to say that you look pretty good. Have a great night." And then walk away and get back to your sit. What you did now is completely confuse her because she was sure you are going to try something and you didn’t. Isn't that wired? Yes. You just let her keep on thinking whatever she wants. You can be sure that no matter what, she will be thinking of you later that night. One time I had this happen to me and a week later that same girl saw me in the same place. I just smiled at her and waved hallo and she just got up and came to talk to me. So, don’t be bothered by something like this. It will happen and more then once. Just keep on trying and stick to the rules.

4. If you reached this step then everything is ok and the moment of truth is here. This is where most people spoil everything by trying to develop a meaningful conversation and try to figure exactly how old is her baby brother and what's his name. Don’t ! You cannot develop a first time conversation in a bar and most chances are she will reach the conclusion that you are not as interesting as she thought. What you should do now is simple. Just focus on her bridge and say just this: "I just wanted to say that you seem like a very nice girl and I will be happy to get to know you a little better". Wow! That's it? Yes. All you need in one simple sentence. You are staring at her bridge so she has a hard time concentrating on what you say. You didn’t tell her she was beautiful, you told her she "seems nice". The average girl will immediately think that there is something wrong about her look and that will add to the confusion. You also stated that you just want to get to know her "a little better" what does that mean? Leave it up to the average girl to find thousands of different interpretations. That’s the beauty about this sentence. And now it's time for the golden moment.

5. if you are a beginner in this method, I would suggest that for now you should only ask her for her phone number. Do it like this: " I'd really like to talk to you more but I have to go. Is it ok if we talk tomorrow on the phone? " when you have practiced this enough and got enough phone numbers (remember – it does take practice until you reach the correct smooth tone of voice that will calm her down and make her confident enough in you to give you her phone number. So please don’t give up after the first time you fail. Just keep on trying until you mastered it) you can try to skip the phone part by saying something like this: "I'd really like to get to know you a little better but I'm just about to go to --- (fill in with a great place everyone likes to go to and I don’t mean your house)? Would you like to join me, it should be fun" that’s it. If she wants to come with you it's great, if not, just settle with a phone number.

A few very important rules you should never break:

1. Before even starting, make sure that there is no boyfriend/husband in sight. That can save you the time and wasted efforts.

2. If the girl is alone in the bar that’s great but very rare. Applying this system on a girl sitting down with one girlfriend is not recommended because the girlfriend will take the attention away from you. A girl that is sitting with a group of people can also be dangerous because she will be shy to do what she feels like doing.

3. The solution is to wait for the perfect time when she is not a part of the conversation or temporarily alone. The more experience you get in this method the easier it will be for you to just step up to a group of girls and talk to the girl of your dreams. When you do so, it will be a very good idea to say: "excuse me for bothering" to her girlfriends before you start.

4. Never Quit! Keep trying until you get it right. That’s the best idea I can ever give you.

5. Use common sense and when you get a "bad vibe" from her when you approach just walk away. Most likely the "bad vibes" are correct.

Good luck to you. And let us know how it works for you.

End of article series.

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